Burning Man

Its Today!!

The Man burns tonight!!  

If you’re a past burner or wanna-be-burner or curious burner-to-be, check out the height of Burning Man on the live feed here.

So, dear hubby is probably out there whopping it up – hope he is having a good time!

You can also listen to BMIR Burning Man radio here.

 

And…. I have 3 more days until dear hubby gets home!  Woot!  2 days with family here and 1 day solo…..  This has been a long, but educational experience.  I definitely see the light at the end of the tunnel.  

Be.  Fierce.

#IamAFierceMom

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Achooo!!

Ergh.  Sneeze.  *sniff*  I think I have a cold.  Or allergies?  Or something.  A cold I think.  So, short post.  

Uh, so I wrote the special needs T.A. in question (from previous post) a nice note and we’re going to start off on a good foot this year!  *crosses fingers*   And I *did* go to that exercise class (Zumba!), and I did feel better afterwards.  Love a good workout.  Its like pulling teeth to get me there, but once I do it, it feels great.

 Today was a big day, I have family that arrived in town today and the children had their Ice Cream Social at school, so we ran home, got M through most of his homework and ran back to the social at school.  (new PTA car magnet!  woot!)  Ice Cream!!  Before dinner!!  O.o   <— Wonky eyeballs.  What could go wrong??  O.O    <—- Big eyeballs.  So, got the kids nice and sugared up, let them run around the playground, ran home, ate dinner, bathtub,  bedtime routine and bed.  Whew!  (an hour late.  boo.)  

I think when you have a mom-cold, you should get a pass on doing dishes.  Don’t you think?  Anyway.  Most of my dishes are done, but I just couldn’t do anymore of them so I just left them and will have to work on it in the AM before breakfast.  Right now my sinuses feel like they might explode.   So that also means I have laundry half-finished and lunches that aren’t packed for tomorrow and I’m basically just going to take some cold medicene and pass out.  Moment by moment, maybe I’ll feel better in the morning.  Right now I have clean, fed children who have done their homework and right now with the way I feel, I’m taking that as a win.  #win!

Family is settled in downstairs and I just now realize I have not the foggiest idea what we’re all going to do this weekend.  Ha.  *deep breath*  I’ll figure something out I’m sure.  

1 day left until the Man burns at Burning Man.  You can watch the live feed here.  

I’m on day 12 of 16 with handling my mons-ners by myself although I do now have some family in town to help deflect the questions, juice requests and lego battles.  

Be Fierce Moms!  *sniff*  Take those vitamins!  

#IamAFierceMom

 

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Playing Grown-Up

Have you ever heard that if you smile, even when you don’t feel like it, you will eventually feel happy?  (or at least happier?)  Its supposed to be true.  So, I’m trying this.  I’m going to pretend that I feel like a mature adult and hope that I eventually actually feel that way.  Think it will work?  Yeah, I know, I’m not 100% convinced either, but I’m going to give it a go.  

First day of school went so smoothly for my mons-ners, M seems to have jumped back in like he’d been gone a week.  A switch went off in his head and suddenly he’s in school mode.  Awesome-sauce.  “A” seems to be enjoying it, but more gradually easing into the routine, in the meantime enjoying his new lunchbox and new salad box to bring to school.  (He loves salad so much, he asked if he could start bringing it for lunches.  As long as he eats, I don’t feel like I can complain.)  Miss. S had her meeting with her preschool teacher and she will start in about a week or so.  We’re enjoying some quality time together this week.  I did however find out the afternoon of the first day that M has a special education T.A. that I am not really on good terms with.  We don’t have a good history.  I tried to think of how to handle the situation and went over a bunch of scenarios in my head.  The best I could come up with was to start out on a positive note and hope that the situation works well for M.  I mean, after all, its not really my situation.  It’s M’s.  He has different relationships than I do.  He can make friends on his own, he can handle his own schoolwork (when at school anyway), and I am just going to take a deep breath and wait it out.  The T.A. seems to have a good rapport with him and I feel like she’s a good person, its just me that she’s not nuts about and you know, that’s ok, as long as that doesn’t interfere with anything and I’m going to go for positive and say that I think its going to be ok.  The “mama bear” approach isn’t going to always work and we’re all in this together for the next handful of years so I think erring on the side of caution and good intention is my best choice.  As a friend of mine just reminded me, its difficult being a parent and being a special needs parent sort of ups the ante on that.  I feel like I always need to be there for M, always explain things for him, sort things out for him, but you know, I’m not always going to be there and although he handles situations differently than I would, he is now old enough to be able to speak for himself at least a little bit.  So, I’ll keep tabs on things and monitor his progress and we’ll see.  Mature adult on the outside, crazy childish ravings on the inside.  Yay me!  

It also helps me that I was reminded recently of how fortunate I am to have children in the first place and to be able to stay at home to have these challenges/opportunities to conquer.  I’m glad that I have my problems.  Actually that is not true.  I am thankful that I have my challenges.  

And let’s see – the Man burns in 3 days at Burning Man.  

I am on day 10 of 16 of being on my own with the mons-ners and it has gotten substantially easier with school being in session! Plus, I have an evening out with friends tomorrow, so I’m excited about that.  Also, I think we’re past the “scariness’ of the transition from summer to school schedule, so *whew*!  Transitions.  Transitions are hard and I don’t know about yours, but really hard for my kiddos.  

Alrighty, well I will say a little prayer that our school situation works out and I hope all of you are enjoying settling into the very beginning of the school season.  

 

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The Man Burns in 13 days

So this week begins a grand experiment of sorts. Dear hubby is leaving on business for a week and then leaving from there on a much needed solo vacation for 8+ days. So that will leave just me and the 3 mons-ners for 16 days!! EEKKK!! I’m a little scared. I think I can I think I can I think I can. (right?) I took a 7-week trip with them over the summer kind of by myself…. but we visited with a lot of family, so most of the time there were other folks around to help absorb some of the energy abounding from the kiddos. I’m a little less um, shocked I guess is the best word, about this situation than I was a couple of days ago. I thought the lovely folks coming in to help with the kiddos would have mentioned months ago if they weren’t able to come up for the timing of the actual event so that we could have made other arrangements or cancelled dear hubby’s trip. I am trying to think positive (hanging on to that silver lining) and put some life cheats in place. So far I have scheduled some babysitters, arranged for 2 evenings out for me and alerted a few of my friends that I may need to contact them in an emergency. (thanks Dalal!) I thought I would do a countdown until the whole thing is over. Next time we do this we’re going to have to figure out a different childcare assistance option or bring them with us and pay for childcare when we arrive – also generally an option. We once hired a nanny for a weekend away (just Friday to Sunday) for a stay-cation, but we only had 2 children then and we didn’t go far. It was extremely expensive. I can’t imagine how much it would cost for 3 children. Thoughts anyone??

 

For vacation, dear Hubby is going to Burning Man in Black Rock City, NV. It’s an art/music/social experiment /festival of sorts. Any burners out there?? I’ve been a few times, but it is such a long trip and I just can’t be away from my mons-ners for that long. When they get a little older I would like to take them. But they have a bit of maturing to do for safety (in my opinion – I know a lot of folks bring babies, no judging here, each child has their own temperament). Check out the link if you’re curious about Burning Man – I am sure I will talk a lot about it over the next couple of weeks. Right now in fact I am listening to BMIR, Burning Man Radio, 94.5 The Voice Of The Man. It streams live at www.BMIR.org. You can also download the app for it. That is what I have. There will also be live streaming of the event online all week (August 25-Sept. 1).  Here are a few of my pictures from a previous trip.  Oh, and hence the title, they do actually burn a statue of a “man” on Saturday night of that week.

I thought I would have that on most of the time so that the kids could see where daddy was during the week. They (most likely) won’t actually see him, but it would be cool for them to kind of understand where he was on his trip since we won’t have actual contact with him for 7 or 8 days. I have to say though, we dropped off dear hubby’s camping luggage to be shipped out to NV for him and then now that I’m listening to the radio….. ugh, I really miss it. Maybe that says something about where I am in my life. That I’ve finally relaxed enough to want to reach out again to things like this and have new experiences. (I am a recovering corporate dweller and I have to say that it was just not a good fit for me. It has taken me years to get over the damage done to my ego and psyche. I’m getting there though, I am finding myself and figuring it all out again.) Also, I’m just one of those people where if I go, chances are my mons-ners go with me. I’m a package deal 90 percent of the time. I love my nights out don’t get me wrong, but, I dunno, I just couldn’t handle a long trip such as this without them.

 

Keep me in your thoughts out there. Tomorrow starts Day 1. Stay tuned.

 

Be fierce.