I have got to grow thicker skin. Or home school. One of the two.
My boy M. He gets the short end of the stick on the playground so often. When he was younger, maybe 5 or 6, he would get pushed around at the park sometimes because he didn’t understand how to interact with children as well as others and sometimes they made fun of him. He didn’t realize they were making fun of him and that made them mad! So eventually they would resort to physical pushes and punches which he understood hurt, but not why he was being hurt. Eventually he learned to push back and punch back. It was a big milestone for him! And also, the beginning of hard knocks on the playground. He’s a kid, it’ll happen. Well, in our “everyone’s a bully society”, the parents jump first and ask questions later. I admit, I’ve done the same thing – we’re all worried about our own children. Its a safety issue. The problem is that many children never learn to fix their own problems.
I am so angry. A dad on the playground today verbally assaulted M like he was an adult. He was raving at him and M didn’t know how to respond. He just started screaming. He’s 8. I RAN over to where this was happening and tried to redirect the man’s anger towards me. The dad kept repeating himself over and over and eventually I said that we needed to either call the paramedics, an attorney or let it go. After everyone calmed down we eventually had the children talk about how hitting was not appropriate behavior for the playground. M apologized 3 times, tried to fist-bump and shake hands with the boy and the boy refused to participate. Those are huge social milestones for M. He even called the boy a “little dude”. SO much progress. In the end, it wasn’t the dad that went to the school to make a report. It was me. M is currently so afraid of the dad, he doesn’t want to go to the playground. I am sure we don’t have all the information. Still, stress. Over a playground. ::headdesk::
Ugh. Its stuff like this that makes me want to home school. Stupid politics.